Try these tips to become more dateable…
1) It’s vital to be ready well in time for a date. If you are running late you feel anxious and that will compound your problems. Have an outfit you feel fantastic in ready to go. Don’t be rushed, walk in cool and calm ready for a great start to your date.
2) Confidence is attractive so fake it to make it! Tell yourself you’re going to be like someone you admire who exudes natural self-confidence. Picture them giving you a pep talk before and throughout your date.
3) Examine the body language of people who are confident – they have good posture, don’t fidget and use direct eye contact. This all makes a difference to how you are perceived as well as boosting your own positive mental outlook.
4) Remind yourself why you’re a catch! Think about all your fantastic qualities. Challenge any negative inner voice that talks you down and says you’re not good enough to find a worthy partner. Talk back to it, remind yourself of all the good things you’ve done, everything you’ve achieved and how you’re a good person.